About the Author
For 78 years, I have walked this earth, deeply committed to the roles I’ve taken on as a family member, counselor, husband, brother, and friend. My journey has been one of growth, self-reflection, and a relentless pursuit of love and meaning. Along the way, I’ve encountered self-doubt, but I’ve learned that these shadows of uncertainty are part of the human experience. What defines us is not the doubts themselves, but how we rise above them, embracing the light of our strengths and the gifts we bring to the world.
Growing up, my mother’s love wrapped tightly around me, but so did her overprotectiveness. Though well-intended, it left little room for risk-taking or self-discovery. As a result, I often felt unsure of myself, hesitant to step beyond familiar boundaries. Yet despite these challenges, my parents nurtured in me a deep love for music, and my uncle Bill became a guiding light, offering lessons far beyond notes and chords.
Even now, I can picture my father’s furniture store vividly— the scent of polished wood and new fabric, the soft glow of lamp displays, and the bustling energy of customers coming and going. I can hear the voices of my father and his colleagues, the hum of conversation, and the occasional sound of a cash register ringing. It was more than a store; it was a stage where some of the earliest acts of my personal development played out, for better or worse. As I reflect on the lasting influence of my father, Murray, I am struck by the quiet but profound legacy he left behind. His presence, even in memory, is a source of comfort and guidance—an enduring touchstone in my life. I often feel his essence in moments when I seek serenity amidst the chaos of everyday life. He taught me the value of steady, unwavering love and the importance of being a grounding force for those around me. Murray’s carefully handwritten letters from my years in Ohio serve as a poignant reminder of his support and pride in my choices. He celebrated my decision to pursue a career in biofeedback and counseling with a curiosity and encouragement that made me feel seen and valued.
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We take pride in our work and the relationships we build with our clients. Here’s what some of them have to say about their experience with David A. Singer
I realized a long time ago that everyone has an interesting life story, but in order to interest others, you've got to know which stories to tell and how to tell them. It's clear that Singer knows this. He's a therapist but he doesn't lecture or preach to the reader; instead he allows the reader to learn from his (Singer's) experiences. Or not, because although there are lessons here, it's also a story of an interesting life. He's refreshingly imperfect (especially for a therapist!) and endearingly forthcoming about his own occasional missteps. The book is an easy read because it's so well written. As someone who has taught English and history, one of the most praiseworthy comments I could give my my students' writings was to call them well crafted. To me, this meant that they hadn't settled for just any word, but searched until they discovered the perfect word or set of words to clearly, accurately, and interestingly convey their descriptions and ideas. This book is well crafted. I enjoyed the book and found it useful as a tool to ponder my own life.
In this book, Singer shares intimate and honest reflections about everything from his childhood, to his career, to his most meaningful relationships. His insight is informed by decades of professional and personal experiences. His is a very relatable story, with tales of self-doubt, personal growth, finding love, and navigating complex family relationships. Each chapter clearly illustrates how every stage of life, every triumph and disappointment, is shaped by human connection. Those connections define our lives, and can ultimately bring us the joy and fulfillment we are seeking. An enjoyable read that is sure to resonate, encourage, and inspire those looking for purpose and peace.
One of the first books that I've read cover to cover, in along time. David's writing is masterful, and he knows very well how to tell a story, inter weaving his special and unique experiences in reflections that are universal. He has a sensitivity in writing and communicating that is rare, especially in or culture today. He exposes his own flaws and foibles, with a generous spirit, relatable to so many ways of my life... and I dare to say in all our lives. This book is not to be missed.
Insightful and relatable biography detailing complicated family and life relationships.
I am enjoying this book. For me, it’s a candid glimpse of a time and a place that was more innocent, when family and friends mattered. My life has run a completely different course from the author’s, but I can still relate. In many senses, this is an “Everyman” book about the value of human interaction.
I felt like I was walking beside David through every chapter of his life. This book touched me in ways I didn’t expect.
This is the kind of book you want to gift to someone you love or someone who needs to feel loved.